What I value the most in a friend.
This unfortunately has to be short due to getting up early to start a new job. I hope it goes well!
I value the most in a friend, is kindness, humour, open minded and someone who once they open up, can share their ideas and have a chat about each others opinions as well as listen.
I am quiet at first but when I get to know someone I can be pretty chatty, so someone who enjoys talking too and has similar interests to me, is someone I can click with. I also think them having more of a relaxed positive personality is also important to me, as I tend to react to someones emotions, so if they’re stressed, I’m stressed, if they’re sad then I feel sad and I’m not very good at knowing what to say to make someone feel better either so yeah.
I understand people had bad days but if the majority of your year is bad days then I’ll find it hard to know what to say and difficult to connect to said person. I will of course still try, like I say is what I value but I’m not going to stop trying to be someones friend if they don’t fit that description, apart from if they don’t have kindness and having an open mind, I suppose that is what I value the most.

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